“The one you love and the one who
loves you are never, ever the same person.” ― Chuck Palahniuk, Invisible Monsters
I have seen many men who often run
behind women who don’t love them. Worse, there are men who run behind women who
hate them. Of course, love is some kind of spark that occurs in the heart
rather than in the mind. Nobody can explain exactly how love sparks. But it is
a fact that love sparks in all human beings. Love doesn’t have any boundaries. It doesn’t look
at age, caste, culture, community and regional barriers. Love is something a
divine force that man craves from cradle to death. People often think that old
people don’t love others as they have enjoyed love and are beset with several family
challenges. The fact is that love is a permanent craving in all human being as
every person wants to love and to be loved.
I have seen some people in my life who
have gems at home and still search for stones elsewhere. They don’t recognize the gems at home and
search for stones and waste their precious time, money and energy. They take
the love that is available at home for granted. In some cases, I have come
across some men who love wrong women. In fact, they don’t know who really loves
them and search for love from other women. It is a typical situation happens to
most of men as the maturity levels of men are slower than that of women. Study
has shown that women mature much faster than men. In most cases, women can
easily understand the men who truly love them but they may not be in a position
to express their love for fear of taking them for granted or for fear of
treating them easily. In some cases, cultural barriers prevent women from
expressing their love. Hence, it is a complicated issue between men and women
happening since Stone Age.
Therefore, men must be educated to
understand the heart of the women to avoid such gap between men and women. It results
in the right man meeting the right woman and mating the right woman thus enjoying
their life well. It provides meaning to their life. Hence, psychologists must
do a thorough research in this area to bridge the maturity gap between men and
women through psychometric tools and techniques. They must find out the right
tools and techniques to understand the mind of women so that men can understand
and create better connectivity, compatibility and chemistry with women to avoid
misunderstanding and enhance love and lovemaking.
Identify and understand the woman who
loves you and take care of you rather than to run behind a woman who ignores
you, insults you, and hates you. Don’t forget that you are a special person God
created in this world. Remember, there is always someone born in this world who
truly loves you from the core her heart. Find out such woman, win her love and
lead an exciting life.
“In her first passion, a woman loves
her lover, in all the others all she loves is love” - Lord Byron
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