“You can fool all the people some of the
time, and some of the people all the time, but you cannot fool all the people
all the time.” - Abraham Lincoln
It is observed that boys often run
behind girls in educational institutions to impress them. These boys often
compete among themselves to win the hearts of the girls in educational institutions.
And girls get immense pleasure internally when boys chase them. Some of the
girls proudly tell to other girls that more number of boys are chasing her in
order to show their greatness. And the competition starts among the girls to
attract more boys. At times, a few good girls are also tempted to join this
competition due to peer pressure and age pressure. A few notorious girls incite
boys with their fake smiles to outsmart other girls. In this way, they show to
other girls that more boys run behind them. It is a kind of a game that happens
in most educational institutions. Most boys don’t understand the inner motives
of these notorious girls and their games. They chase the girls just because the girls
smiled at them. Sometimes they go to the extent of fighting among themselves
physically costing their precious friendship for the sake of these notorious
girls. They rarely understand that they are being fooled by these notorious girls
due to their unhealthy competition among themselves. Some girls have more
jealousy when other girls have more number of boy friends. Likewise, such games
occur in educational institutions.
A few girls treat their boyfriends as
ATM cards (ATM card is used for instant cash withdrawal from banks). Once the
money runs out, these girls throw out these boyfriends and search for better
boyfriends with ATM cards. Worse, there are some boys who ride by motor bikes
along with their male friends by chasing the buses in which their girlfriends
travel. These girls smile and provoke the boys through their eye contact and
body language. Unfortunately, accidents occur and most times, the boys die in
bike accidents. These notorious girls search for some other boy friends with
ATM cards loaded with lots of money. Ultimately, it is the parents who weep
over the death of their children. Boys don’t realize it; girls don’t care for
it; and the life goes on like this! What a wonderful world!
Boys are often attracted by external
appearances like color, not by internal beauty like character in girls. The
problem with boys is that they mature late and the prospect with girls is that
they mature fast. There is a mismatch between the genders. That is why boys
become bakaras (fools) and girls
become nakaras (clever). Boys become
puppets and girls become puppeteers.
It is unfortunate that suicides are
shooting up in educational institutions due to love failures. A study reveals that
the rate of suicides is more among the boys than the girls. It causes pain and brings misery to parents
who have very high expectations on their children. Unfortunately, the boys and
girls don’t realize these things at the time of committing suicide.
The message from this article is to
love the right girl or boy, not the wrong one. Remember, an individual with a
rotten attitude is always a liability. You must be intelligent enough to choose
the right person when you love. Don’t fall in love with the person based on
color. In contrast, fall in love with the person based on character because it
is the character that bonds lovers together forever whereas the beauty goes
away over a period of time.
“Experience is a dear teacher, but
fools will learn at no other.” - Benjamin Franklin
“It is better to keep your mouth
closed and let people think you are a fool than to open it and remove all
doubt.” – Mark Twain
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